TUM GALAT NAHI BAS ALAG HO

Prof. Sammruddhi Unde,

School of Sciences - PCU

A dialogue from a very famous movie, indeed a very deep message that the writer wants to convey. The lines say it all. As we accept and celebrate ourselves, our choices in the spirit of “Main Bas aisa hi hu “It is equally important to extend the same acceptance to others. Feeling accepted is a fundamental psychological need that plays a crucial role in shaping our emotional well-being and mental health.

Recognizing that everyone is on their own journey, and accepting that everyone has their own choices, thoughts, experiences, values and hence their opinion may differ from us. Accepting others as they are requires shedding preconceived notions and allowing people the space to express their authenticity. This acceptance can create a harmonious coexistence where individuals feel valued for their true selves, free from the burden of society’s expectations.

When you are in allowance with the True nature of another person, may it be your close relations, your friends or your colleagues, your relationships have a different spark in it, a different level of ease with each other, and hence with this ease, you even achieve a great success, as you are free from judgements and disharmony. You invest your valuable time in the development of self and also for Society.

This MANTRA, I think, has a great significance for couples, when they are in agreement with the uniqueness of their partners, and can encourage them to embrace their distinct strengths, choices. It nourishes the relationship where both individuals feel empowered, and respected, which contributes to a harmonious partnership built on mutual understanding.

In workplace , with all diverse traits of personalities and talents, recognizing and appreciating individual’s strengths enhances team dynamics, creativity and innovations, contributing to a more dynamic and inclusive professional environment.

Friends being different and having their own unique habits and quirks make the group more interesting and colourful.here this MANTRA encourages creating a supportive space where individual growth is nurtured. This mind-set shifts allows friendship to flourish, transcending society’s expectations and allowing each member to contribute authenticity to the bond.

Beyond intimate relationships and professional spheres, this Mantra goes across societies whether in cultural, religious communities, the recognition that each member brings a unique perspective enhances the collective experiences creating a vibrant society. Embracing and accepting the views, values, culture, and opinions of others reflects a mature and respectful approach to interpersonal relationships and societal diversity. This mind-set is rooted in empathy, open-mindedness, and a recognition of the inherent worth of every individual.

By accepting diverse views, one acknowledges that individuals have the right to form their own opinions and make choices based on their unique backgrounds and experiences. This respect for autonomy is a key aspect of mature and respectful behaviour.

Mature individuals engage in open and constructive dialogue, even when faced with differing opinions. Rather than imposing their own beliefs, they seek common ground and aim for mutual understanding. This approach encourages a healthy exchange of ideas, contributing to personal growth and societal progress.

Respectful acceptance creates a foundation for building meaningful connections with people from various backgrounds. Acknowledging and embracing differences in values, opinions, and cultures fosters a sense of unity despite diversity. This ability to connect across differences is a hallmark of maturity and demonstrates a broad-minded and inclusive attitude.

Accepting others as they are is grounded in the bedrock of empathy, understanding, and a sincere regard for the individuality and diversity that define human beings. At its core, acceptance springs from a profound well of compassion and a genuine openness to perceive the world through another person's eyes. It requires acknowledging and valuing the intrinsic worth and dignity of each individual, irrespective of the distinctions or special attributes that make them unique. This perspective allows us to cultivate a richer tapestry of human connections, fostering an environment where differences are not only tolerated but celebrated as essential threads in the fabric of our shared humanity.